Understanding me!

It's funny how we keep cribbing and sulking about how it is so difficult to understand a certain person in our lives! I do that all the time. Whether it be my Dad or my ex-girlfriend or my closest of friends, why is it that these people who are generally so close to us, are sometimes so difficult to understand!

Let's see, could it be that because these people are so close to us, we have presumptions about their actions and their modes of behavior! And when our presumptions do not match the actual outcome, we tend to feel that the person did not act in the certain 'expected' way. Let's understand, however close we are, we are two different people with 2 different sets of minds and hence our actions and decisions ought to be different.

But every now and then we think,

Why did he not return my call? or Why is she going out with that guy after my telling her that he is not right for her? etc. etc.

I have a very close friend today, who I can even give my life for! She is so dear to me that it scares me sometimes. I believe many of us have come to a point in our lives that we sit back and wonder how a particular person ever got so close to us and us to him. This is the exact story. When a person is this close to you, you tend to expect a lot from him/her. Expect calls, expect text's, expect to meet and also expect that person to share everything with you. But is that really always possible? In a perfect world, MAYBE, but in a practical world, let's accept that it's NOT POSSIBLE!

Today @ 25, I sometimes feel that I have lived it all, but have I really? Hmmmmm

I have yet to learn and witness a lot. I am a person who always needs answers and hence you'll always notice that there will be a lot of questions everytime I put up something on this blog. And I will be around until the day I have all my answers! Life is short i agree but long enough for us to be content with it, long enough for us to have cherished the moments that we leave behind us and definitely long enough for us to spread our love in lives of others who matter.

So let's give the people who we're expecting so much from some space to breath and analyze what can be done correctly in order for our closest relations to work out. We humans are nothing without each other.

Until next time..