Understanding LOVE : Part One
I sit here today in my office and wonder what made me start this blog!
I write a lot but have never written to people who might come out here and read my opinions on life or what my perceptions about certain things are. I have so much to say and so much to hear from all of you. Maybe this is the beginning that we were looking for.
We all have opinions and blogging has been this one route that people take in order to get it across to the rest.
Let's begin today with the most basic topic that all of us can relate to. Whether we're thin or we're fat, whether fair or dark, whether we're rich or poor, whether Hindu or Muslim, we can all relate to LOVE!
There must be a million people who write about it, who have opinions that we all feel are divine and mind-awakening! But do we ever really follow them. Do we ever really feel that life is perfect and that if I follow certain pieces of advice, flowers will blossom and i'll live happily ever after?
What is LOVE? Many say it's truly meeting the one soul mate and knowing it straight away. How do we know it? Does our heart tell us this? Or is it our mind that eventually believes that this is the one person who could make everything right?
We all fall in love, but do we all really FALL in love just the once and the story is perfect never to be written off the books. Wish all our stories were perfect like the movies. We meet a person, fall in 'love at first sight' and then after the small complications that we have, live happily ever after.
But then nothing is perfect, is it??
I have a few stories of my own dividing my life into chapters that have been more interesting than romantic! (Very romantic none the less). But I cherish each day (even after constantly sulking that I hate this world) because I learn from this funny little thing called love. We need than one person who we care for and who cares back, who we go out of the way to do things and who reciprocates!
Today, @ 25 years and after three relations (two and a half actually, we'll come to that) I know I am not some guru at this, believe me no one is, but I know one thing for sure.. "Women are complicated, but not impossible to understand!!!" ... It just takes time :P
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