Breathe..

What do we want from our lives. Obviously we have certain needs, wants and demands! But then have we categorized them as what is important to us right away and what can wait, or is it just a time based thing. Oh! the Blackberry 9700 is the new phone in town, hmm 27k so what, my insurance payment (or whatever it is) can wait just a little longer.

I am the same, I like to get what I want in the immediate. For the same reason, even Dad calls me a 'broken record', a record which is stuck on the same thing until fixed. And the fixing here means getting what I want. Happened with my Macbook, my new car as well as my iPad. Happens all the time. But is it really right. If I think practically, of course not. But then, my heart says, 'you have what you wanted dude, Awesome!'

Back to square one right.. who do I listen to? my mind or my heart!

Hence, when you have a choice which involves big bucks or important people and important relations at stake. Don't just take the leap.. 'breathe' and take a couple of minutes just to think what will be gained and what will be lost. I need to read this again and while you'll (if anyone at all :P) might be reading this, so will I!

I am not the biggest fan of sitting in the dark and taking a few minutes off to meditate and reflect. But I do it my way.. I sit in the dark with my eyes open and think of things that are going to happen tomorrow or next week or even next month. I think and feel that they are already happening. That really helps me analyse my expenses and my decisions amongst other more important things.

On a different note.. this really helps to sit and think about things that we want, to occur in our life. Give your dreams just 5 minutes. Hear yourself breathe. Hear your heart beat. Analyse what you need and think of it really happening. It really helps you feel that moment and then, in reality, work toward it.

Today @25, I have finally learnt to give some time to 'me' and understand what moments in the coming days, weeks and months of my life will truly bring me joy and make me feel complete.

You are your own best friend. You know yourself, your thoughts and your dreams clearer than any body else. Why not consult your self when need be.

Until next time..