All of us are victims of our own dreams and imaginations. We make believe certain parallel realities and convince ourselves to believe they exist. Sometimes real and sometimes fictional people are part of them.
Our minds are unbelievably powerful. So much so that if we convince ourselves that a certain part of our dream could move a step closer to the edge of reality.. It does so simultaneous to our thoughts. All my blogs talk about love, faith, happiness and belief. Because the more I train my mind to think about these positive feelings, I will begin to emit them. And I I'll eventually attract the same to me. Maybe I am inspired to a certain point by people and thoughts on paper, but what I loved most is beginning to believe that I am not rigid. I have the will to change and to be better. Trust me, we all have the same will. We just need to find that and then what is a dream job or who is this girl of your dreams. You will have it all.
But then like a coin, there are two sides to our minds. Our minds are children, our children. We nurture, train and develop our minds to be what we want them to be. But they still have a way of their own, a little beyond our control. And contrary to what people's opinion on this would be, they need a little lies every now and then.
We need to make our minds believe that to certain unhappy and upset situations, there is a solution. That there is an 'alternate reality' to everything. It may not always be the case but Then we live on hope, don't we?
We all need a healer in our lives. Why not be our own healer. If it's a little lying to ourselves that helps calm our mind, what the hell!
You know there was a reason why I started writing here. I wanted to be able to make my mind believe that I can talk to people and tell them how I feel even when I am lonely. So now I know one thing is for certain, whether at home, at work or on a vacation. I am not alone.
I lied to myself every single day after my break up a couple of months ago, that I was happy! I lied to myself so much that I used to sit on my terrace with a tear rolling down my eye and I used to scream, 'i am happy!'.
In my defense, it was a very very long relation. And I had built an alternate reality to It too! An alternate reality which involved family, vacations, gifts and celebrations, and everything else you look at when you think of a future with your partner.
More on relationships later!
But today @ 25, I feel that I am finally friends with my mind.
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