Crossroads!

Well as glad as I am about the year 2010 coming to an end.. I still haven't really found the right path on the crossroads of my life!

I finally feel that career-wise, I am at the right place doing what I should have always done. But then I still feel unstable in most other aspects that complete life.

But then if we think about.. We are all vulnerable at some points in our lives. Maybe this is the time where I will finally identify the strengths in all avenues of life and bounce back. Be a better human being than I was!! And to be very honest, there always was vast scope for improvement!!!

Life, as I see it, has three clear outcomes.. Win. Lose. Trail.

Like the phrase goes.. We win some and we lose some. But the key thing here is that if we do not lose those few, we do not really appreciate the joy of winning the others. I have been very pessimistic about a lot of things lately and that hasn't really helped my cause of trying to fight through these hard times and coming out a better person.

We really have to reflect each event that occurs in our lives and take out of it the valuable information. Create a sort of a filter. Vulnerability is not something we have to be ashamed about or be embarrassed about. It is something that helps us understand the value of relations and people who affect our lives each day.

And about trailing in some paths of life. There is nothing wrong with it. It can be called wrong if we give up because we trail for too long instead of just hanging in there and working on ourselves to put us in a better position and be able to win!!

If I may truly open up and say the absolute truth.. I give up too soon myself and am sincerely hoping that writing and reviewing my blog will help me too. I apologize but I am the last example of 'practice before you preach'.

Today @ 26, I am not looking for anything in life. I am looking for life to shape itself. I will just try and adapt and adjust myself in a way that I make the best of the rest of it.

P.S. The things you own can't make you as happy as the things you do.. If you have to choose between buying something or spending the money on a memorable experience, don't hesitate...go with the experience!

Until next time..